The group chat is shaking. New BLK data reveals that "playing it safe" is officially an ick, roleplay is the new self-care, and the "freaky" friend might actually be the healthiest dater in the squad. Let’s be real for a second. For generations , the sex advice given to Black women (and men) basically boiled down to one thing: Be presentable.  Keep it cute. Keep it quiet. And whatever you do, don't let them think you're "fast." Well, respectfully? “People-pleasing” has left t