THE SWEETEST TABOO: KINK
- PAPER
- Feb 13, 2021
- 1 min read
Mistress Marley: Dominatrix and Kink Educator
Mistress Marley, @thechocolatedomme_ on Instagram, is a dominatrix and kink educator, who advocates for transparency and communication in relationships. "My passion is bringing kink education to the Black community," Mistress Marley tells PAPER and BLK. "Within our community kink is seen as taboo." Mistress Marley works to break down this stigma through education and demos. "It's a very fun job and I learn something new every day," she laughs.
Many people find that online BDSM tests are a helpful first step when they want to discover your kinks. It's a very personal journey, and having tools that allow for private introspection can be really beneficial. These quizzes often present a variety of scenarios and preferences, prompting you to think about what appeals to you, what your boundaries might be, and what roles you might be drawn to. It’s less about getting a 'score' and more about the process of self-reflection that the questions facilitate. This can be particularly useful for beginners who are trying to navigate the terminology and understand their own place within the vast spectrum of BDSM interests. It’s a good way to start exploring your desires…