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Don’t know how to navigate your Sneaky Link situ? Worry no more!

We’ve put together a list of tips on how to have successful sneaky link meetups without getting caught up!

Also, you can thank us in advance, because we’ve already curated the perfect playlist for you and your sneaky link. These songs will help set the mood and have you feeling bold, fearless and confident as you prepare for your linkup.

Get Your Mind Right.

Get your mind, body and soul in shape. Make sure the expectations and outcomes of the sneaky link are clear to all parties involved, because if mind, body, and soul aren’t aligned, your sneaky link will turn into a messy situation, and nobody wants to bring that drama into the new year – 2020 was enough!

Song: “Get Ya Mind Right” by Jeezy

Be Open to New Experiences.

Be open and go with the flow. The point of your sneaky link is privacy and no judgements, so try those things you might not do if this was a traditional LTR.

Song: “Please Me” by Cardi B & Bruno Mars

Be clear and read the vibes.

When both people are on the same page, it leaves less room for confusion and frustration.

Song: “Bitch Dont Kill My Vibe” by Kendrick Lamar

Keep it on the low.

No need to post on social media each new date or meet up you have.

Song: “My Little Secret” by Xscape

Spontaneity is key.

Be sure to have some spontaneous fun. Don’t make the linkup feel like an appointment every time you get together. Hangout with a group of mutual friends and don’t interact with one another… I can guarantee, this level of sneakiness will def spice things up on your next link.

Song: “Unpredictable” by Jamie Foxx

Don’t catch feelings.

Don’t get too caught up in your emotions or defining what the situation is. Enjoy the moment and have fun. I mean, that’s the whole point isn’t it. Otherwise, ignore this whole list and intro your sneaky link to all your family in friends bc ya’ll go together now!

Song: “Catch No Feelings” by Drake

Stay fresh and clean.

Make sure your hygiene is on point and your PH is normal. Time is of the essence… If you stay ready, you don’t have to get ready… ijs!

Song: “So Fresh So Clean” by Outkast

Pack light!

Like Eryka Badu said, “Pack light!” Bring your essentials, but you don’t want to look pressed to sleepover. Charger, toothbrush, makeup wipes and miniature bottles of smell good is all you need. Ladies, just pack it in your purse. Fellas, act like you have a few last minute emails to send before midnight and pack it in your laptop bag… this will also make your work ethic appear 100.

Song: “Bag Lady” by Eryka Badu

Be Safe.

While it’s secretive, make sure someone knows where you are in case something happens! And if you take it there, strap up! Because having a baby or catching a disease ain’t that sneaky anymore, now is it???

Song: “Wet Dreamz” by J.Cole

Be Confident.

Know what you came for and don’t be a tease. Refer back to Tip #3 if there’s any confusion.

Song: “Feeling Myself” by Nicki Minaj x Beyonce

Check out our Spotify playlist for the full sneaky link music set. Issa vibe!



Varnell Hill
Varnell Hill
3 days ago

What is this?


am new at this


I'm new at this


Looking for uh new link


Tracie Kelly
Tracie Kelly
May 28, 2023

Oh wow I'm learning

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